Someone asked us to write about perseverance in the waiting, I know we’ve all been there, in the waiting room. That agonizing period of “waiting” for something we deeply desire. For me, the most prominent example was my season of singleness. As a proud member of the “NBSB” club (No Boyfriend Since Birth), I spent a significant portion of my youth navigating the uncharted waters of romantic uncertainty. While I initially viewed singleness as a frustrating period of limbo, I eventually discovered that it was a valuable season of growth and self-discovery.
At that time, it was really challenging to wait without an ETA. Waiting for something without an estimated time of arrival can be incredibly stretching. The lack of a clear timeline can breed anxiety, impatience, and even despair. It’s easy to fall into the trap of constantly questioning, “When will this happen?” or “Am I doing something wrong?” This constant rumination can leave you feeling stuck and emotionally drained. But looking back, I found these three learnings helpful for this season of waiting.
3 Key Learnings from My Waiting Season
Waiting is an integral part of the journey:
Just like a train journey involves periods of waiting at stations, waiting is an inevitable part of any meaningful journey. It’s a time for reflection, preparation, and inner growth. Instead of resisting the wait, embrace it as an opportunity for self-improvement and deepening your connection with yourself and those around you.
Waiting gives an emphasis to prioritize the present moment:
Waiting can easily lead to an unhealthy focus on the future, leaving you disconnected from the present. To maximize your time, actively engage in the “now.” Cultivate meaningful relationships, pursue your passions, and find joy in the everyday moments. Remember, the present moment is the only one you truly possess, as you wait for future blessings.
Waiting time is never wasted time:
Many people mistakenly perceive waiting as a period of stagnation, a time when life is simply on hold. However, this couldn’t be further from the truth. Waiting can be a highly productive season for personal development. Embrace this time to invest in yourself. Learn new skills, explore your passions, and cultivate the qualities that will make you a more fulfilled individual and a better partner. This is also a precious opportunity to deepen your relationship with God, surrendering your plans to His and trusting that He is intricately weaving a beautiful story for your life.
This is also a precious opportunity to deepen your relationship with God, surrendering your plans to His and trusting that He is intricately weaving a beautiful story for your life.
Waiting time is never wasted time.
Looking back, I can confidently say that waiting was absolutely worth it. At 23, I finally met my first boyfriend, the love of my life. Two years later, we were married. This journey taught me that the timing of life’s blessings is often beyond our control. What truly matters is how we choose to spend that time – embracing the present, nurturing our souls, and cultivating the qualities that will make us the best versions of ourselves.
This journey taught me that the timing of life’s blessings is often beyond our control. What truly matters is how we choose to spend that time – embracing the present, nurturing our souls, and cultivating the qualities that will make us the best versions of ourselves.
As the Bible reminds us in Isaiah 40:31, ‘But they who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint.’ Trust the process, and remember that waiting, while challenging, can be a powerful catalyst for growth and a springboard for a beautiful future.
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